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Wednesday, February 20, 2008

HEART OF STONE

I am a weak person emotionally...I have never been able to act matured and calm when faced with an emotional situations...But they are people that possess a 'heart of stone'...I envy them because they are able to act like nothing affects them....They are able to distract their mind away from the situation…They are able continue their day like nothing has happened...For example in a situation where you quarrel will a loved one...or where you have those 'break up' situations...They are able to avoid confrontation and put the other person in a state of weakness...I HATE these people...hehe...

Why are they like this? Because they have no BLOODY feelings! No lah...just joking...I think one of the reasons are that they are more matured...They are able to think in a very rational manner in any situation.. When you are more matured you are able to control yourself better and always able to think and rationalize…That means i still have a long way to go....

My counter-argument is if the issue that has made you so emotional is so dear to you...so close to your heart...how can you act like nothing has happened...Will you not say or do something...I admit there must be limits to our action...'You cant be jumping into middle of the road'....(not me)...Will you not try to take some action to resolve the conflict faced...If someone hurts you...will you not say something...How can you…keep quiet and pretend nothing happens when someone dear to you hurts you or when something bad happens? Maybe they just don’t care...

Another reason why they are like this is they really have no BLOODY feelings...Sorry...They are cruel creatures...Sorry again...hehe...Is that they are able to prioritize their emotions and mind…they are able to focus only on positive emotions...they avoid negative emotions and always think about clear, positive and healthy thoughts…They know what they want in life...and nothing stops them from achieving it...

For me I have come to one conclusion...They don't really care about that situation or that person that much...How do I know? I have tried being a person with a 'heart of stone' and really...They don't really care! They might feel affected but it is not powerful or strong enough...

For those who are very emotional (Yours Truly) avoid KAMBING/MUTTON

IT REALLY MAKES YOU VERY AGGRESIVE AND EASILY EMOTIONAL


And apart from that you should know that you have a weak mind...I admit i have a weak mind also...Learn how to control your thoughts and actions...Learn how to think rationally….A weak mind will never get you anywhere in life...


My advise be careful when dealing with them...especially having a relationship with people who have a 'heart of stone'...They can break you down...They may be special but always be clear about who they are...

6 comments:

Harogenki said...

a heart of stone can show u how u are as a person too.

at least it doesnt tell u lies at the time u need it.

Falcon said...

harongeki..you raise a good point..I agree..you will get the honest truth..

gerrine chin said...

yea..it's all true about wat u say above! sumtimes, I wonder whether we could just tell our mind to listen to our brain and not to our heart so that we can think wisely and act rationally (and u know if u've follow yr heart,u will HARDLY act rationally!)so that we are self-protected!

jam said...

Then I supposed you will hate me, lol. I strongly adhere to Murphy's Law on what is going to happen will happen. Just stay calm and see what we can do about it.

Abby said...

a heart of stone?

Falcon said...

@Gerrine> we same kaki lah..

@jam> I wont hate you..I actually wish i was like you

@Abby>Heart of stone means someone who is the opposite of an emotional person...Always calm and cool