This Post is based on an observation I made for a long time...This is based on conversation between myself and some friends...The Question that I am goin to try to answer is whether do women really love money? I dont mean Gold Diggers but any normal and decent girl...Everybody knows money is a powerful tool....Money can corrupt anyone including you...But is it so powerful that it can buy a woman's love?
Sorry for being so dramatic..hehe..A good friend of mine hooked up with a rich guy..She's a very very nice gal...She's pretty...She has many admirers..And when i mean many....I mean a lot..she's always rejected ALL the guys..Recently she hooked up with a guy...I am so happy for her...She says the guy is nice and loving..Hardworking...(After some 'koreking') I found out he is from a very rich family and I feel bad saying this but he is not good looking (really)..Now here all facts end and my interpretation of the whole scenario starts;
I asked her Did money matter? Her answer was No
Hmm...Really then how come? why this guy? Try to imagine if he was from a poor family..He had no 'upper hand' in life...Would you have fallen for him...Possible...But would he have a higher possibilty in winning your heart..being from a wealthy family..and able to drive a 'nice' car....Definitely...Try to imagine if the guy had no car to fetch her..No money to buy her flowers..No money to make those long cellphone calls...No money to take her out for dinner...'Tackling' a gal like my friend is a really long process and can be very demanding 'financially'....Even if you had the heart of gold but your financial constraint can make you seem 'below average' to gals....
I'm not saying that my fren went for him for the money..I know she didnt..But Did it influence her...Helly yeah!! but was it done consciously? Did she knowingly let the the 'Money factor' influence her? No...My theory is that the 'Money factor' works at a subconscious level...The same way we like gals with a particular feature..Japanese 'cute gal' looks (stop watching porn guys)..Long hair..Long legs..Its a fact..Accept it money can be really really helpful in buying love..
But do I look at my friend differently? No...I still treat her as my good friend..I still look at her in the same way... Why? First lets be practical..If I was a gal why not be with a good guy who can provide financial security..If you can find a life partner who can provide you happiness and also provide for a good family...If you are a good looking gal who can demand the best then why not? If he has good character and comes with....
Consider yourself blessed..And have a nice life...My conclusion thus is Money doesn't buy love but Money can be very helpful in obtaining love..
End of Part I...soon Part II..Do men use money to buy love?
