TO HAVE LOVED OR NOT HAVE LOVED

Is it worth it to love someone? Is it worth it to put your heart out there? Is it worth it to leave the fate of your happiness into the hands of another person? Is it worth it to love? many people will say yes including myself but there will be others that will consider love as childish feelings that produce no benefit except pain. Love is measured by its ability to find the best for that person and not according to the real definition of love..That is loving someone truly for who that person is... A feeling born deep inside your heart for a person to cherish and care for that person with the strongest feelings possible imaginable for that person..For others Love exist but tailored according to a person wishes and desire...Many have forgotten that a love exist with such intensity that it is capable to create unimaginable happiness....


Sadly love has it's ugly side also..It makes us so weak that we are overwhelmed by emotions..We are controlled by emotions and thus 'get all crazy'..The pain from love is so powerful and intense that it is capable of changing a person...creating a fear so strong that people lose the ability to love again..It can create anger and hatred..It causes us to weep every moment through tears and unknown to others through silent tears deep down in our heart..Love can make your very existence a curse...

Sometimes avoiding love spares a person all the heartbreak and pain and suffering and anger.... But turning your back at love deprives you from being happy....Having a controlled love is not love..Its is only a game where we let our weakness and fear control us..You can never be truly happy if you hold yourself back...

TO THOSE THAT KNOW THAT THEY CANT SINCERELY LOVE SOMEONE OR ARE UNABLE OR INCAPABLE TO LOVE ..IF YOUR DEFINITION OF LOVE IS JUST HAVING FUN...DON'T BREAK AND KILL THE HEART OF THOSE THAT STILL BELIEVE..DON'T KILL THE HOPE IN OTHERS..